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writes:I like this guy hes 17 and im 15 he kissed me the other day and wanted to go further but i didnt and we talked about tht but he was glad we didnt go further cuz we barley know each other. but ever since then things have seemed kind of off. I talked to him and he said everything was fine. We texted everyday exept yesterday, and thats fine i mean i dont want to bug him, he says i dont but i dont know, maybe i do a little. But i think its only bc of holidays, that we barley text, i really like this guy and he knows i do bc i told him, and he sayed he was pretty darn interested in me. i dont know what to do. What should i do?
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reader, Denise32 +, writes (3 January 2011):
 Hey there! Slow down and take it easy! The holidays are only JUST coming to an end and everyone is busy then with family and friends.
You say you exchanged texts every day and then in the next breath you're staying you "barely text". I guess over Christmas and New Year is what you're referring to about barely texting.
Anyway, even if you do like one another, you both have your own friends and studies (school or work) and other activities to occupy yourself(yourselves) with. Its not good to act as if you're "joined at the hip" you know!
Especially since he wanted to "go further" but after you talked realized its not a good idea as you hardly know one another. Now THAT'S sensible! So, don't do anything for a few days, then send a text......if you see him once or twice a week, three times at most it will be good and you won't be rushing things - remember what starts out in a huge hurry, also burns out fast. You don't want that to happen, do you?
So cool it!
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 January 2011): He wanted to go further but since you didnt he's lost some interest. That's okay it's not your fault. You shouldn't feel pressured by some guy to go further. If he truly cared he'd respect that and wait, yet continue as you were not communicate less with you. Seems like he's interested in one thing. I say move on.
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