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He treats me good-I treat him like crap. Am I a bad gf?

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Question - (22 May 2007) 4 Answers - (Newest, 30 April 2008)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

am i a bad girlfriend? My boy-friend of 2 1/2 years going on 3 is always so good to me, he treats me very good, he has gotten me so spoiled by given me anything i want but every day at school i will just keep on pushin, slappin, hitting him and i can't help it for some reason but i got him spoiled, i will do anything for him but i don't know if i'm that good of a girl friend to him! pez tell me wut u think!

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (30 April 2008):

Uh well are you seriously attacking him when you say 'hit' and 'slap'? If so yes you are a bad GF, wouldnt you consider him a bad BF if he was doing those things to you? of course you would, and you probably wouldnt stand for someone slapping you around, and eventually he wont either..someone is going to talk some sense in to him or hes going to just think one day....what am i doing i treat her so well, i dont deserve to be treated like this' you know.. fix your problem or lose him.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (29 October 2007):

Ok. Simple answer here. Would you want him pushing, slapping, etc. you? Of course not! Well you're treating him like crap when you should be/act appreciate(tell him you are)and tell him how much you love him. Otherwise, this guy is going to wisen up and leave you for someone that doesn't abuse him.

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (23 May 2007):

eyeswideopen agony auntI'll tell what I think, I think you are between 10 and 12 years old, too young to be a girlfriend period over and out. And that is exactly why you are being a lousy girlfriend. Enjoy that last few moments of your childhood before you start trying to behave like a teenager.

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A male reader, DV1 United States +, writes (23 May 2007):

DV1 agony auntIt seems to me that you're unsure how to express happiness, and therefore resort to an easy emotion - anger. I think that you two should take a break, and you should figure out what's going on in your heart and mind. When you don't question your ability to be good to him, try going back and seeing if he still feels the same way.

DV1

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