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writes: Dear Cupid...There is this boy i really like at school, but, he fancies one of my mates and i dont know if he really likes me, although he said he loved me before.what does this mean?and what do i do? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, XxXLoveAngelXxX +, writes (29 December 2006):
Around your age boys are total liars most of the time. They'd do anything to get a girl. Its pretty clear this boy doesn't love you and is just messing you around, so just step back and move on. Your young, so try to have fun and don't start worrying about serious relationships yet!
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reader, LttleBadMonkey12 +, writes (21 December 2006):
What she said.This guy is just playing you.Forget about him. If it turns out that he does really love you, he'll come back to you.
Good Luck!!
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reader, xoxHotdevilxox +, writes (20 December 2006):
im sorri to disapoint you but i don't think he does love you! no 1 could say they love someone and then fancy someone else! i know how you must feel ive been throw the same! i think its sick how people can do stuff like that and play with peoples emotions! just talk to him and tell him how you feel! also talk to your mate and explain to her that you love him and if she was a true mate she would tell him that nothing would happen between them and that he needs to move on! im sure that you are a canni lass, you just need to find the right guy! theres plenty or nice lads out there that will fall in love with you and tell you they love you and actually mean it!! i hope my advice has helped! x
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 December 2006): I seriously, highly doubt he even knows what love is. Love is a refinement of different aspects of a mutually beneficial concept, in moods, feelings, practice, and interaction. I think this boy is merely liking you just because. I think by the time you're in your late teens to early twenties, your view on love might be more together, and may even laugh at yourself as of now. 8]
Seriously, this isn't even a dilemma. Try not to think so much on it. I'm sure at your age, the saying goes, boys will be boys and extremely immature as well.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 December 2006): sorry hun but boys can be a nasty piece of work. at your age i very much doubt that this boy knows what love is. the best thing to do well either ask him out yourelf? or get a friend to ask if he does really like you. if he does then really your mate shouldnt have look in. and being your mate if she knows you really like him then she shouldnt go anywhere near him anyway. basically you are still young enjoy life don't worry about boys coz im tlling you now they'll tie you down when you get into a relationship when you get older so make the most of it now!!!
Take Care
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