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writes:I'm addicted to this guy. He's nothing special to look at. He's just got something about him that makes me want to be with him all the time. It's been two years almost since we broke up and we hardly talked. But then randomly out of the blue he started talking to me and I went round his house and cuddled and he touched my breasts like nothing had changed. Except now he's ignoring me again... I'm just so confused. I've tried to let go. But it's just so darn hard!Help?!
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reader, Tommy7  +, writes (10 October 2007):
Great Expectations about a guy who just wanted to cop a feel.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 May 2007): If it's been two years, since you and he broke up and he hardly has talked to you. He could've been dating other people and he found himself, without anyone for the time-being. He likely was momentarily lonely and needed some company. So he gave you a call. But if he's not calling you to follow up on pursuing this relationship further, it means he's not reciprocating with the same feelings and perhaps it is time to for you to let go and move on. Hun, you are pretty young..the chances are, he will not be the last bf you have. There will be many more, in your future. Try your best not to not dwell on just one guy. Dating should be fun for young people your age. It's a process that teaches us all about love and relationships. It prepares us for the future and adulthood. It teaches young adolecsents like yourself, how to make the best choices for thmeselves. The only way you learn is through experience and sadly, through heartbreak. So the best thing you can do...talk to trusted friends, distract yourself and get out with all your best friends, be a positive, happy person..enjoy life and try hard to get your mind off him. It will take time.
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reader, nologo  +, writes (22 May 2007):
 Why you wrote phrase "I'm addicted to this guy"?
If it's true, it's clear now he is also confused.
Two years break could bring changes to his feelings to you, but it didn't in this case.
"I went round his house and cuddled and he touched my breasts like nothing had changed".
And that should be the answer: nothing had changed FOR HIM.
He sees that situation changed FOR YOU: "he's ignoring me"
My advice: you should talk to him and discuss the rules.
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reader, kenny +, writes (21 May 2007):
 It does sound like he is blowing hot and cold for some reason, maybe he is just unsure of how he feels at the moment. I think you have got to talk to him, next time you two are alone tell him how you feel, and ask him how he feels, ask him why sometimes he ignors you too.
I know its hard when you really like someone, and you feel like you can't let go, but you are still so young. If this dosen't work out you will surely meet someone over the fulness of time that will sweep you off your feet.
Good luck x
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