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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:Hey Guys! I'm very confused right now. 3 months ago I started dating this really great guy. It was very laidback and we saw eachother like 2 times a week and it was very nice.After 3 months my feelings became stronger and I wanted some perspective from him on the future. I wanted to know if he wanted it to stay casual or something more.He had to think about it and came over to talk about it. He told me (i knew this) He only broke up with his ex gf like 4 months ago after a relationship of 6 years(and we started dating 3 months ago) and he couldn't give his heart because the breakup was still fresh.He told me he really liked me and that the timing was just off ("if it was just a few months later" he said). He started crying so I know I mean a lot to him.I decided to leave him alone and let him deal with his stuff. But now 2 weeks later he starts texting me again again. That he thinks of me etc. I don't know what to do! I just made peace with the decision!
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reader, cute angel  +, writes (16 July 2013):
 Dear OP,He just got out of a relationship,probably the guy is ready to start dating again but he wants to wait before he emerses himself in a relationship!and I think its only fair he takes some time..you don't want him to hurry with you than regret!he confessed he really liked you and would makes things work,but right now he's not in the right frame of mind and I totally don't see anything wrong with that..if he was disrespectful and pushed u into doing things u dint want to do,u have every right to let go but if all the guy needs is a little time I sure think u should give him..u wouldn't want to let go off someone only cuz of his baggage of the past,which isn't even in his present or future!its been 3 months,get to know him a little more and if you still think he needs more time and you need the answer u can always know that you waited for this man,but he took too long!Good luck OP
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