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female
age
30-35,
*inger lover
writes:so yesterday was my bf and i's one month I know it's not that big of a deal but he broke up with me on that day to. I'm his first g first kiss first everything and he told me earlier that day he loved me and want gonna leave me till a long time and he loved the idea of us being together. He broke up with me over text saying he isn't ready for a gf and doesn't know how to have a relationship with someone. He's a ginger cuz I'm easily attracted to them for ex if I see one I think the are hott atuomatically. But now idkk what to do. Can anyone help me???
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 May 2010): If he dumps by text you can do better
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (7 May 2010):
 You thank him mentally for having thought you a valuable lesson ,which is : some people don't mean what they say and don't say what they mean. Saying "I love you " is quite easy and effortless- showing this love with actions is what matters. Don't worry- relationships are also a matter of trial and error and you need to experience a few failures before reaching success .
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (7 May 2010):
You have to move on from him. Women mature at a faster rate then men do. So a 17 year old girl might be ready for a relationship, whereas a 17 year old guy might not. The way that he dumped you shows how immature he was. He couldn't even do it face to face and did it by text. So you know you can do better, and you will do better. Spend time on yourself now, spoil yourself a bit, get out there with friends and just take your time getting over him.
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