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writes:My boyfriend is mad because we haven't seen each other for a few days, what should I do ?.I last saw him on Wednesday. It was his fault that we didn't see each other on Thursday,and I was busy on Friday and Saturday. He sent me a text today, saying that I will never see him again, and he said that's a promise. I called him ,and he accused me of cheating on him ( I never have ) , and I said I intended to see him today, but he told me that it was too late, and he hung up on me.Does anyone think he is being childish?. Should I go over to his house, or should I wait until I hear from him?.
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (12 May 2014):
 I agree that I would take him at his word and never see him again.... who needs that kind of negative accusatory behavior?
NOT only would I NOT go over to his house, I would never initiate contact and the only time I would take his call is to say "oh I'm sorry you broke up with me, don't bother me again it's over" and then hang up and block him and move on.
You probably won't do this. In fact, I bet the minute he comes crawling to you and begs your forgiveness you will forgive him and things will be fine for a bit then it will start all over again.
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reader, GhostChild  +, writes (12 May 2014):
 Your boyfriend is clingy and needy. He doesn't sound emotionally mature or ready for a relationship if threatening to leave you is how he deals with a non-issue like this. He said that to get a reaction out of you and to see if you'll come after him.
I wouldn't go to him, you would just feed his jealous ego and justify his manipulative methods of controlling you.
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reader, Mark1978 +, writes (11 May 2014):
 Well if he is 13 then put up with it, if he is an adult dump him for being so immature.
You don't need that kind of behaviour.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (11 May 2014):
 Jeeez, just call him and end it. No one can have a healthy relationship if one of them don't trust the other, accuse her of cheating and make THREATS to dump her when HE hasn't seen you a few days.
The guy is moron.
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (11 May 2014):
 What you OUGHT to do is TAKE HIM UP on his ".....I will never see him again, and he said that's a promise..."
What kind of childish game is he playing???? .... and are you dumb enough to go along with it?????
Dump him and get an ADULT boyfriend....
Good luck.....
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reader, WhenCowsAttack +, writes (11 May 2014):
You should be grateful you are rid of this controlling, jealous jerk, pick yourself up, and move on.
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (11 May 2014):
 Uhm, you should just let him have the final say in this and leave him alone so he can fulfill his promise about never seeing you again.
Who needs that? Seriously? There are better men out there.. that is my promise.
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