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writes:So I met this guy who's really nice and very similar to me. I have known him for a few months prior. We both bluntly state that we are extremely attracted to one another. We had a really nice night talking and had some fun with making out and stuff...but obviously thinking back I regret some stupid little comments that I might have made or said (I told him that I was "falling for him", even though I knew it was too soon..). At the end of the night he walked me back to my car and we kissed on the lips. The next day I texted him telling him that last night was really nice and he responded saying that it was very nice and enjoyed having me over and that he'll let me know the next time we can hang out. He even texts goodnight with a smiley face. Would you think that he is still interested and would want to pursue something? Any suggestions would be great...thanks! Sincerely, a very nervous/confused dater.....lol
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (27 February 2012):
 So glad it went well!
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 February 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionJust to let you guys know... everything went GREAT! :) Thanks!!
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (25 February 2012):
FAB-U-LOUS! Have a lovely time!
Don't INSIST that you pay for him, but I think OFFERING ONCE is perfectly fine.
Keep us posted.
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reader, Dear Mandy  +, writes (25 February 2012):
 HI
He probably wants to go dutch, so is saying nothing too expensive. I think it's great :) hope you get all this sorted out. Have a lovely eveing.
Mandy x
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 February 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionOk, so I texted him and asked him out to dinner. And he accepted! Although he did tell me that he didn't care where we go as long as it's not expensive. Obviously, I'm going to pay for the both of us since I asked. But does he not think it's a date? Or is he just saying that as a nice gesture of not to spend too much? I mean I did ask, "would you like to go to dinner tomorrow night?"...how obvious can you get!? lol Can anyone give me any feedback? Thanks much!
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reader, Dear Mandy +, writes (23 February 2012):
I think a bottle of wine is a nice jesture, nothing too fancy, just a simple rose wine would surfice. With the line of work his in, it would be a great way to unwind. :)
Mandy x
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 February 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for your answers so far! :) I appreciate them. I actually texted him today and he texted me back within a couple minutes. He apologized for not texting me as he is extremely busy with school and grad school preparations. We texted for just a bit. He did say "Goodnight :)" yes he said goodnight with my name and a smiley face. So I would assume he's still interested and a good sign, just busy? I just hope he will ask me to hang out again so I can at least prove myself now and be more mature about the actual situation. If he does invite me over again should I bring him something? Like maybe a bottle of wine or a little something? Or is that too much right now?
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reader, Miamine +, writes (22 February 2012):
 When did this nice night happen. How long has it been since you've heard anything from him.
Your comment "I'm falling for you", that was fine. You said how your feeling, but it's vague enough to not promise anything concrete. All it says is that your interested in him, so don't worry.
Can't really tell if he's still interested unless we get some idea how long you've been waiting.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (22 February 2012):
He may be interested in a relationship or he may think that since you already told him you are interested that he can get sex without having to put much effort into it....
I agree with Mandy however that you need to back off and let him come after you a bit....
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reader, Dear Mandy +, writes (22 February 2012):
HI
I would hold back your feeligs for a little while, you told him once your falling for him, so dont mention that again unless he does. other than that its sounds like he likes you too :) texting good night with smiley faces every night, its a start, just dont push anything, let this take a nice slow pace and see where it goes. If you try to rush things it will push him away, and he will probably start to think your a bunny boiler. nice slow easy steps ok :)
Mandy x
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