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writes: Hello cupids,I am slightly confused about a guys behaviour. He has been away for a couple of weeks visiting family in another country. We have been seeing each other casually for a month and 1/2 now not rushing into anything as we both broke up with people shortly before we met. He sent me a text the day after he was back saying he would really like to see me soon, so I replied saying that it would be nice to meet up and did he have a nice time - and it's been nearly 2 days and I have had no reply.Do you think he may not contact me again? Why would he do this. He lives near me and knows some of my crowd so he is usually out when I go out to town. Not sure how I should be around him as he has not replied to my text.Am I just worrying too much?Thanks . xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 February 2007): Why the confusion, hun? If this has been a casual relationship, and it's just been only 2 days, then why the wondering? I have always thought a 'casual relationship' meant keeping it all in perspective, with both people trying to stay balanced, casual, not serious...keeping their relationship all fun and simple. If this is what you signed up for with these boundaries in place, then if you begin to go into panic mode because he hasn't contacted you in two days, then you aren't keeping up with the rules of this casual relationship, are you? Are you certain ..a 'casual relationship' is what you really want? If not, you will feel put upon and resentful when he's not living up to your expectations.. Best to work that out in your mind first before worrying about whether he's contacting you. Proceed with caution though, if you want more at this stage of the game, you are just asking for problems and heartache. Relax and go slow. He is viewing this as 'casual' and he feels likely no real need toget in touch. Give it a few more days and see if he contatcs you. If not, there is nothing wrong with you, writing him a nice, easy going, 'casual' note saying 'hey there, how are you?" Good luck dear and just take this 'one day at a time'.
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