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*tef02
writes:Hello everyone I'm so sad. I have a best friend we've known each other for 1 1/2 years and we meet at work. we would always go out everywhere talk about everything 24/7 none stop. Little by little I stopped talking to him as much. Months days passed were one day we kissed because we both wanted to try it out. We kissed 2 times and the following day we talked like nothing ever happen. More months passed then we started the kissing again and we wanted to do more with each other. I knew he was a virgin so I didn't want to be his first because of what my first time was like. We end up being intimacy with each other I was freaking out being his first. He confessed couple of days later that I wasn't. I took it like nothing. We kept being intimacy with each other were one day I confessed to him that I had feelings for him. He told me he did too, but that I just don't show it so he takes me like what ever basically. Then we had a serious talk about everything so we decided we were trying us out and now that we were trying us out we hardly communicate with each other we don't text we don't talk on the phone. He goes in in the morning to work and i go in the afternoon to closing. So he text me saying he would text me later but his phone is low battery or if not hes going to sleep. Like I'm not sure am i over reacting like back then we didn't have that problem were we never stopped talking. He tells me to be straight forward with him on everything so I'm not sure if i should tell him that it bugs me that were not communicating. Is it okay to date your best friend does it turn out okay in the long run?
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reader, stef02 +, writes (5 October 2011):
stef02 is verified as being by the original poster of the question So I did tell him and he says he has noticed it and says im busy I said how hes like eaither ur at work or its me we have different schedules now or I go out after work with friends but I dont but even there we would still talk. He also said it seems im taking everything fast and that we should leave it how it is right now until it gets better. He also mention how he needa to keep certain stuff like private I guess since we go out not sure . We text it out but he gets upset n wont reply no more until we resolve it in person.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (5 October 2011):
 It can turn out ok yes. It can be good because you are both friends so you know each other already. Yes talk to him and tell him how you are feeling. He might not have noticed the break down in communication or maybe he has just been very busy. But yes you have proven that you can talk to him openly about things so just tell him how you are feeling, both of you sit down and talk about it and see what happens from there.
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