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writes:So me and this boy have been "best friends" for awhile now. He admitted that he used to like me but was to scared to do anything because he was unsure about how i felt. We hang out every now and then and I started to like him. When we hang out he's always holding my hand. A few days ago he asked what I would do if he kissed me. When he came over to hang out he "tries" to kiss me. I told him he wouldnt do it so he insists I go to him so he could prove me wrong. He then sang me a song about falling in love with a bestfriend. When I told him I liked him I thought he'd stop acting the way he did. But he didn't, he still holds my hand and lays down on my shoulder when we watch movies at home. I know he doesn't like me because he repeatedly tells me about a girl he likes. I got fed up because he always talked about her so ignored him for a day. He got worried so he kept bothering me about why I don't talk to him. I couldn't tell him I was jealous because I was scared it would ruin our relationship. Could he possibly be hiding feelings for me by talking about that girl or is he messing with me?
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reader, BondGirl72 +, writes (19 July 2012):
 He didn't say anything else? Is he still talking about the other girl? It sounds like he does like you and may be willing to work on his behavior. I would wait and see how things go, but I think it is weird he just said the letter was "sweet" and said nothing else. Sometimes guys are weird about communication about things, so just see what happens and come back here if you need to.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 July 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWell about the letter, he thought it was really sweet and he asked why there wasn't a back side
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reader, BondGirl72 +, writes (19 July 2012):
The picture is a good sign, but has he responded to the letter in any way?
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 July 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionOK yesterday I gave him a sweet letter telling him how I felt, and this morning he changed his profile picture to just the both of us. Why do you think?
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reader, BondGirl72 +, writes (15 July 2012):
It is hard to tell. The ball is in his court right now, or in other words, it is his move on how he wants to behave. The next thing I would want to know is if he likes you as a girlfriend or just a friend. It sounds like you may want more with him, so I would want to find out what his intentions are.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 July 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionSo I went ahead and told him how I felt, at first I thought I ruined our friendship but when I came back he seemed very hyper. Does it mean anything?
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 July 2012): Tell him talking about other girls will only push you away from him. Tell him about all the things you do like about him. If he keeps on talking about other girls maybe he is not ready for a relationship yet. I dated a guy like that and he never did stop. I let him go now he is fighting to get me back. I felt disresoected with him. I have moved on.
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reader, BondGirl72 +, writes (13 July 2012):
Guys sometimes do this and have no clue that they are doing anything wrong. I would tell him that he seems to talk about this other girl a lot and it upsets you. See what he says. If he really likes you, he will try to eliminate talking about her around you. I know this should seem like common sense to a guy, but sometimes they don't even realize they're doing it.
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