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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:Hi,Okay, I am overly sensitive.I fell for a guy who only told me about him having a wife back in Vietnam after I had fallen for him.He asked me to stay with him and we can get thru if we stay together. I believed him.One day, we went holidaying and I caught a glimpse of what use to be his wife pic in his wallet. It shattered me. Seeing me cry, he decided it is not a good idea to date. at the time, we were only exclusively dating less than a month.I am glad that he is willing to give in to my request - don't go to my gym over weekdays. But we still keep in touch via text.Problem is, I still miss him and I still want him.. I am still hurt and i feel rejected.. I desperately want to get over him, but I don't want to come off like overly dramatic by telling him "lose all contact". I thought I will be okay as long as I don't see him. it worked a bit, but i guess i mistaken. knowing he was not even keen to see me, hurt me..How is he so okay? Why I am shattered and he is alright? How can i fall for him so quick?How to stop missing someone who don't miss you back? I want to come out as okay about the breakup, but i am totally not..help me, please.. I don't like what is happening to me right now..
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