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36-40,
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writes:I have a new boyfriend its only been a month, he introduced me to his whole family already, which is great but i dont know why he would im confused weather he likes me alot or not, and the reason why is because his best friend is a girl she lives in miami he lives in gainesville but he saids no shes my little sister but he talks to her alot and ask her where she is going all the time , and saids i love you to her when they hang up she is 2 years younger then him maybe even 3 but i dont know if i should be concerned i didnt want to meet her but he insisted that we shall meet so we did i didnt talk much neither did she but i dont know what to think help!
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reader, Jamer70  +, writes (6 June 2007):
 There are two possibilities her really.
Firstly he may really Love this "Friend" and it will be hard to find out if there having an emotional affiar, in absense of being geographically close to each. If they are you will have to leave this man.
Other possibility is that he Loves her as a friend and just says "I Love You" indiscriminantly not knowing how else it can be interpretted. I say i love you to my female friends and its just something you say to close friends.
In this situation you can either take the phrase with a Grain Of Salt, or talk to him about her and find out the truth.
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reader, love-him +, writes (6 June 2007):
 the fact you have met her is good. i think you should try and forget your mind playing tricks on you making you think more about the situation.. she sounds like just a good friend to your boyfriend.. maybe spend some time with the friend, just you two so you can get to know her a bit more.. hope i helped mail me if you wana talk x x x
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reader, mcbirdie +, writes (6 June 2007):
 People have friends. Of both genders. And all levels of attractiveness. If your boyfriend is trustworthy, then it doesn't matter who his friends are; if he isn't...it still doesn't.
Men don't cheat because of proximity to other women. Men who cheat do so because they are cheaters. If anything, you should take comfort in your boyfriend's relationship with this girl--men who respect women enough to be best friends with them, are far less likely to show their girlfriends disrespect later.
Acting standoffish and jealous will do you far more harm than good--no one likes the girl who is territorial to crazy extremes. Make friends with this girl--she is clearly important to your man. You may as well find out why and enjoy her friendship as well.
Best of luck.
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