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female
age
30-35,
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writes:hey I'm a 14 year old girl and I'm having big dating problems. I was dating this guy I totally fell in love with. We dated and one night I was talking to our friend and max(the guy I was dating) tested me and asked what I was doing, I told him talk to Austin. Max and Austin are best friends but me and Austin are also friends. And max told me that Austin deserved me more then him. Max broke up with me a day after our first month anniversary. I still have big feelings for him. He tells everyone that I'm a retard and stuff. I would go back out with him but I think he would play me. I rely like this guy but I don't think he knows and he doesn't like me. I rely want to have a boyfriend I'm not despret but I like having a boyfriend. I rely want max back but how do I tell him?but I like another guy what should I do?Or should I just wait untell the right guy come along?
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reader, korculan queen  +, writes (16 March 2008):
I would wait until you are more clear on what it is you want and who you want. It seems to me that attention is what you want and honey you are still young. He called you a retard. Definitely not the grounds for a healthy stable relationship. Remember that having a boyfriend does not complete you. You are whole on your own. If you feel that you want a boyfriend because you feel empty or not complete then no relationship now or in the future will fill the void. People that feel this way feel this way because they are empty and void of self confidence and self esteem. Not the right ingredients to attract someone to you. Positive affirmations.
1.I am a beautiful person.
2.I am worthy of love and respect.
3.I am fine just the way I am.
4.I love myself and I have self worth.
5.I am special and unique.
6.I am complete on my own and am a capable person.
Tell yourself this everyday even looking in the mirror while you say it. It might feel stupid but if you tell yourself these positive affirmations every day then within a month you will start to BELIEVE IN YOURSELF. That is the foremost and most important quality to attract a healthy stable relationship.
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