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writes:When couples say that they have a lot in common, what does that mean? Is it things that appear common physically like hobbies and pastimes, or things they would like to have in their relationship like having a kid or moving abroad to live. Or is it something else? Reply to this Question
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reader, Wild Thaing  +, writes (28 May 2006):
 The phrase is very subjective when it comes to relationships. It can describe any number of things that two people share - opinions, interests, life experiences, and on and on. This list may be inexhaustible.
A more interesting question is, why do some couples say it? The phrase almost sounds like a rationalization for being together, as if the mutual sense of connection is inadequate proof of their suitability to be together. I think it's a very defensive way to characterize a relationship - "We're together because we have a lot in common." That sounds pretty lame to me.
I hope this helps.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 May 2006): normally they mean in common as in hobbies or personalilty.
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reader, Smiler +, writes (27 May 2006):
 Hi There
Well me personally i would agree with you when someone says we have alot of things i common its a generalisation it can mean that they share the same hobbies or interests or it could mean we both want companionship, children, or want to travel/live abroad so i guess sweetie you would have to take it in the context that its used in but in answer to your question what does it mean when couples say they have alot in common i would say it usually refers to hobbies and interests.
i hope this helps you a little
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