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writes:Hey everyone.Basically I have party tomorrow night and I'm so neverous about it. I'm know once I'm there I'll enjoy myself but, building up to it, I'm dreading it.I've bought a dress and although I do look nice in it, I'm worried about peoples' reactions. It makes me look different as I normally seem quiet and serious and this is a proper party dress. Everyone else will be dressed up too but until I'm there and got into the swing of things, I feel awful!There's also a certain someone that I like who I've had trouble communicating with in person. But normally at a party he talks to me. I really like him and, not that I expect something to happen, I'm just worried. I get really nervous around him and knowing that I'm likely to talk to him makes me worry. Plus I'll be all dressed up, which makes me scared.I'm sure I'll have a good time but until, I'm there I feel terrible! The whole day tomorrow I know I'll be feeling sick and nervous. I often get like this for social events. I've tried to get a lift with a friend but can't find anyone so it looks like I might be on my own arriving :( I'm trying to keep busy but I'm not busy enough!Any advice on how to chill, calm down and relax? It'd all be very much appreciated. Thank you. X Reply to this Question
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reader, LazyGuy  +, writes (15 December 2009):
 Nope. You are young and nervous. You will grow out of it, but not before tomorrow I think.
Just don't eat anything complex. nervous stomach is NOT good at a party. And stay away from the alcohol. If you think you can handle another (or one) then you can't.
and just remember, he might easily be just as worried. The first one to show fear loses. Oh wait, no that is lions.
Just try to relax and enjoy the party tomorrow. Once your an adult all your worries will go away, as you drown them in liquor.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 December 2009): Just dont go over the top on the makeup, if your usually serios and dont wear alot, dont make it show that you've gone to too much effort, wear your hair in a way that looks nice but isnt OTT and put just a little more makeup than you usually wear on, if you know you look good and you feel comfortable in what your wearing (like you dont feel your attracting too much attention if your shy) then you'll feel a hell of a lot better, trust me, and good luck 3
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