He still talks to his ex girlfriend and it bugs me like crazy!

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Question - (4 January 2009)

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A female age 30-35, anonymous writes:

My boyfriend and I have been dating for about 3 months now. I really love him and Trust him completely when it comes to him talking to other girls. The only thing is, he still talks to his ex girlfriend and it bugs me like crazy! He dated her about 6 years ago but it still really bugs me and sometimes I think he still likes her. He even used to talk to me..about her and it was very uncomfortable. But I don't understand why I'm getting jealous over this. Could he still like her or am I just paranoid?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (4 January 2009):

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Of course I trust him! He's amazing. He tells me he would never flirt with other girls, cheat on me or hurt me in any way. Its just a feeling that I get when he talks to her. Its a jealous, worried feeling that I get thinking about him talking to her.

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A female reader, huneygyrl +, writes (4 January 2009):

If this issue really bugs you, this is something you need to address your boyfriend. I really understand how you feel about your boyfriend remain open communication with his ex, of course it'll bug you but the question is...do you trust him?

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A female reader, accused +, writes (4 January 2009):

I don't think you have anything to worry about. If you trust your boyfriend then you will have to let him have freedom to talk to whom ever he wants. Trust me on this one, if he wants to be with another woman then he will... but if you feel that by him talking to his ex bothers you that bad, then speak to him about it. Just understand that he will have other female friends then yourself. if you talk to him about things you feel bother you, then you are opening up a communication with him that will help you both as your relationship progresses. I wish you the best of luck

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