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writes:Ive told my bf (hes a virgin) that im not a virgin and that I have had a few sexual partners.I've told him this more than once. But he keeps refering to me as a virgin.we are both 18 and were waiting to have sex. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 March 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni wanna say it will be special to me as much as it is to him as im in love with him and ive never been in love before
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reader, xxxsoulsistaxxx +, writes (19 March 2007):
 It seems like he might be in denial about the information you have given him. He has no right to act this way, as this could make you feel you've done something wrong. He isn't a virgin either so there's no need to be a prude about it!
Talk to him and tell him you'd rather he accept what you've told him and start acting that way. However, I have problems understanding just how much a conversation as to whether you're a virgin or not comes up in a relationship? I mean, once you know about each other, surely that's it?
Hope he understands and starts acting the way a man should.
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reader, Confused88 +, writes (19 March 2007):
Sorry to be a pain but I'm a bit unsure of the problem,He may still think of you as a virgin to comfort himself,The fact he is a virgin will probably make him slef concscious and him thing you are also a virgin will relax him,Don't let it trouble you its probably boosting his confidence,But if he asks dont lie about itHope this is of helpxxxxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 March 2007): Maybe he wants you to feel that the first time you have sex together just as special to you as it is to him.
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