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female
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36-40,
*eloved000
writes: Can I still date the guy or pursue a marriage while he is still curious about his ex girlfriend and look for her online and look at her naked photos? Is this normal for a guy?
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (13 July 2013):
Totally unacceptable. I would end it, because it DOES show that he isn't over her. IF he was over her, why would he look at those pictures?
Like YouWish said, no ring on your finger is going to make it OK or make him stop.
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male
reader, anonymous, writes (13 July 2013): That's not normal for a guy.
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (13 July 2013): Ew no. That is so inappropriate and it is going to crush your self esteem, naturally. Forget this idiot. He doesn't deserve you.
A guy who loves you wouldn't do that to you. Don't even give him an explanation. Just don't talk to him anymore.
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reader, CMMP +, writes (13 July 2013):
How soon after they broke up did the two of you get together? If it wasn't very long and his relationship was pretty long, this wouldn't surprise me. Whether you put up with it is up to you though.
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male
reader, anonymous, writes (13 July 2013): "Can I still date the guy or pursue a marriage while he is still curious about his ex girlfriend and look for her online and look at her naked photos?"
You can, but you'd be a fool if you did.
"Is this normal for a guy?"
No.
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female
reader, person12345 +, writes (13 July 2013):
No that's not OK in a relationship. He's definitely not over her, don't settle for being second best.
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reader, YouWish +, writes (13 July 2013):
Not normal. I'd dump a guy who did that in a hot minute. This isn't like porn. This is ex-girlfriend unacceptable baggage. She's in his heart. There is no place for you. Telling him to get rid of the naked pictures isn't enough. You have to leave with him seeking her out like that because no marriage is going to fix that.
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