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He spends money on me but doess't ask for sex or even a kiss. Is this true love?

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Question - (23 June 2011) 2 Answers - (Newest, 23 June 2011)
A female Nigeria age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Me and my guy have being dating for six months now. But he has never a day ask for sex or a kiss,but what surprise me is that he spent money on me very well and always beg me not to try to leave him for another guy,except i want him to stay without trusting a girl again,since am his first girl. So friends tell me isn't true love? Hope our love will last without sex?. Please help me,if there is anyway i can test him to know whether he really loves me or not

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A female reader, aunt honesty Ireland +, writes (23 June 2011):

aunt honesty agony auntYou shouldn't have to think about testing him at the end of the day if he tells you he loves you well then you should believe him and not question it. But him spending money on you doesn't mean love as money can not buy love and happiness. You have only been together for 6 months so just keep taking things as they come and see how it develops. You don't need to have sex to keep a relationship going but some intimacy is important like hugs and kisses and just affection.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (23 June 2011):

You don't need to test him. He is being a gentleman.

Most girls would love a guy who doesn't rely on sex as part of their relationship. As time goes on, sex will become part of your relationship.

Perhaps you could try talking to him about it? You say you're his first girl. If he's a virgin, he could be nervous about the whole topic. Perhaps he's had bad experiences in the past. Just ask him

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