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female
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anonymous
writes: I have been in a relationship for 3 yrs. My boyf is v commited, we are trying for a baby now and just about to buy a house together. Thing is I once caught him about to masturbate over a page 3 in the bathroom when he thought I was asleep, He had breifly looked at porn on the internet but never again since. He buys the newspaper and when he throws them out he keeps a couple of the Page 3's occasionaly. This really upsets me, infact it drives me mad I cant bear the thought that he enjoys looking at these pictures and masturbates over them when Im at work or out. I cant get it out of my head and eveytime I leave the house I feel he may be doing this behind my back and this makes it harder to deal with, sometimes I just wish we didnt have a computer or that he didnt know how to use it. Please help, I love him so much but cant bear this feeling of betrayal.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 March 2006): basocally, it's just how guys work. they don't understand why girls get excited over a hot guy on a film, and girls don't understand why guys masturbate over porn. talk to him and say that if you have children, then he should stop, to make it alright. does he know you've seen him? just talk to him about it.
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reader, Jammy2006 +, writes (10 March 2006):
I really wouldnt worry! Us blokes see films with sexy girls in and pictures everywhere! Its ok for anyone to have dreams but he is never going to get even a sniff at the people in the paper so relax! If you really feel bad go online and search for Hunk pictures and cheer yourself up!
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