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He slept with another girl whilst with me and HE accuses me of cheating from time to time! Now I doubt how good I am in bed...

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Question - (23 April 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 23 April 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

okay I have this boy and to be honest I love him more than anithing...how I feel about the guy is indescribable...

He loves me too and were engaged

But...we've been on and off fer 5 years. We broke up fer a reason that wasn't totally good enough but we stayed friends

Then I found out he'd slept with another girl whilst with me and he'd never told me. He said he was drunk, regretted it and didnt say because he didnt wanna hurt me but I dont know...

Were back together but I'm unsure as to whether or not he might again. I also doubt how good I am in bed even when he says I'm amazing, moans and has an errection because ive never made him cum before...

He also accuses me of cheating on him from time to time which my friend says is a guilty consicence...

Should I trust him?

Help on sex would also be apreciated

Thanks

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (23 April 2008):

Well to be honest this guy doesn't sound all that great. He cheated on you in one of the worst possible ways and then accuses YOU of doing the same thing?

And also, if you have actually slept together and he didn't cum then I kind of doubt it is something that you are doing, he may have his own problems in that 'department' .. either that or you simply didn't do it for long enough

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A female reader, katie-4632x. United Kingdom +, writes (23 April 2008):

if your boyfriend has had and affair before it is likely he will have another but you always have to give people a second chance.

your friend is absolutely right, it is just a sign of a guilty concscience, he probably regrets that he had an affair and hurt you.

Just because you havn't made him cum before doesnt mean that your no good in bed, he may have problems you never know. Dont think that because he had an affair your no good in bed, he must of had an affair because he wanted more not because what he had wasn't good enough.

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