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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:Hello,I met this guy a two months ago. He is very funny but a bit of a party animal. But very nice too. We went out twice and we texted during the last weeks. He was cute and always replied right away, he called me darling all the jazz but I was a bit fed up (because he seemed unable to make concrete plans) and decided to stop texting. He came back and invited me to a party. I could not make it but he asked me to meet during the weekend. I accepted and he said that we can go to this bar on sunday night. All good, right ? Nope. He was supposed to contact me but sunday at nine pm i was still waiting. I was so annoyed that i texted him saying that this was very annoying. He replied first thing in the morning saying he was very sorry and he should have called me and blah blah ... Anyway he didn't even have a decent excuse. I said that if one day you really want to meet up give me a call, in the meantime enjoy your life.My friends said i overreacted. But seriously, why do you guys make plans to finally stand the girl up ?? I do not get it. If you are not interested this is a waste of time for both of us !!Do you think i am wrong ? What should i do now ? I really liked him ..
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 December 2011): Read the book "he's just not that into you". Unfortunately, you like him more than he likes you. He doesn't make any real plans with you and when he does, he flakes. Does that even remotely sound like he really wants to be with you? Honestly, when he tries to make plans with you its on a Sunday too?? not a good sign, it means that Friday and Saturday night he's meeting other women or hanging with friends. I wouldn't give him a second thought. Delete his number and forget you met him. He just isn't that interested.
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