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writes:Me and my boyfriend have been going out for one month. I love him to pieces and love spending time with him. I recently went over to his the other weekend and we watched a film. We lay on his bed kissing for a while and he put his hand up my top and down the trousers. I didn't mind but the thing is am I supposed to put my hand down his trousers and start stroking his penis. I'm just worried I'll do it wrong, or do something he doesn't like.please help!
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 February 2008): You are much too young to be even thinking about going further with this boy!
Please, please, take note of what Welshbrunette has written! She is giving you excellent advice.
I would add: DON'T go to his home with him again - or let him come to yours! Laying on the bed together is just asking for trouble.
If as you say you don't want to do anything wrong, if necessary - if he is insistent on going further, for instance, stop seeing him!
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reader, welshbrunette +, writes (6 February 2008):
 whooaaa there......one month is certainly not long....
the trouble is hunny as soon as you start...one thing leads to another. take your time, and dont forget you aren't at the "legal" age for sexual intercourse. you dont say how old your boyfriend is....if he is older than 16 he could be done for statutory rape as you are under age..."IF" you go "all the way"!
kissing and touching is fine if you're happy with that, my advice anyway, is that as you're so so nervous you aren't ready to take things to the next level....talk your concerns over with your boyfriend.
Also, another major issue....if things do progress, as they do naturally...is CONTRACEPTION!.. it can only take once to fall pregnant and also there are alot of nasty things you could catch without the use of condoms...SCAREY but true....intimacy comes as part of growing up and being mature...so these things have to be thought of as well as your worries about what and when you should go further...
I have a 16 yr old son whose girlfriend is 14 but looks 17...he loves her to bits, all I can give is good advice to him, the rest is up up to him....and hopefully they take the advice or be careful
hope this helps you hunny...and get back anytime if you need to....good luck x
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reader, AskEve +, writes (5 February 2008):
 From the sound of it you're not nearly ready for this kind of intimate relationship. Intimacy like this should come naturally between two people. Enjoy being together and getting to know one another first before jumping into something that might end up getting you into trouble.
~Eve~
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