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writes:I have a problem...I went out with my sister to meet her mate....we got on really well and a few days later he came into my work and asked me for my number...we started hanging out and we are getting really close....We really like each other but he claims we cant be together because him and my sister have history...he said in time we can be together...im not sure i can wait ...what do i do? xxx Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 February 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you so much for your advice...
ive dicided not to wait...
me and him are still really close but im not pushing it..
i spoke to my sister and shes fine about it...
they dated 3 years ago now...
im just gunna get on with my life...
thanks again....
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (9 February 2008):
 In one ear and out the other. You just carry on with your life and meet new friends and who knows , you may meet some one more interesting or better than him.
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reader, Moviefan  +, writes (9 February 2008):
 Well you have to take his feelings and his position in mind. Just like guys are supposed to steorotypically. And its probably the best for the 2 of you to wait, becuase i dont think it would do anything for you relationship with your sister if you dated someone she just dated recently. And he may very well not be entirely over her either. Which is something that can lead him to hurt others, trust me.]And dating him right now would also strain things between him and you sister as they are friends. So its better for the both of you to wait.Good Luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 February 2008): Baby what you do is let him go. He has history with your sister,and for him to tell you in time ya'll can be together that's wrong on both behalf.I think that you should first off go to your sister and inform her because he's no good for neither one of you,and secondly you need to cut ties with him.... you're still young with much more to offer. Set higher morals and move forward,there's someone out there much better with more respect for you.
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