A
male
age
30-35,
*oviefan
writes:Well i keep having a few girls say this and im starting to wonder if there right. They think im to uptight about sex stuff while talking. Well the tend to like to talk about sex related stuff a lot. And sometimes tend to drift into odd stuff that is kind of disgusting that like messed up sex stuff like the "Italian meatball" which i would rather not explain and worse. And well i tend to just drop out of a conversation when the go in this area and i prefer to not talk about sex related stuff to much. Is this ok for me to not like talking about this stuff with some of my female friends. I didnt mind talking about it with my ex but with others im a little uncomfortable. Thanks
View related questions:
my ex Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
male
reader, Moviefan +, writes (9 February 2008):
Moviefan is verified as being by the original poster of the question Ok thanks, i was starting to wonder if i was the one at fault here. They normally just ramble on about the stuff and most of the time is not that bad. And what makes it worse tho is they do this at school. And that just makes me even more comfortable.
A
female
reader, Laura1318  +, writes (9 February 2008):
 If you do not feel comfortable, there is nothing wrong with you . There are some topics that is better left unsaid.
...............................
A
reader, anonymous, writes (9 February 2008): Feel no obligation to open up to ANYONE about anything that makes you feel uncomfortable. If someone brought something up like that, I'd probably laugh it off and change the subject. I don't talk about my sex-life to my friends, and them like-wise. :)
...............................
A
male
reader, anonymous, writes (9 February 2008): People put WAY too much emphasis on sex talk.Now I'm no prude, I LOVE sex, and I can talk with the best of them, but there is a time and place to talk about these things.And people CAN go into too much detail.So let your friends know its making you uncomfortable.Flynn 24
...............................
A
female
reader, thatgothgirl20 +, writes (9 February 2008):
 Perfectly understandable. I think that you're normal. You don't have to talk about those kinds of things if you don't want to.
...............................
|
