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writes: He tells me that we can't see each other anymore because I like it too rough in the bedroom. What do i do? I tell him that it isnt about being rough, I like it sometimes like that. But he swears everytime that im to rough. Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, MonksDaBomb +, writes (5 July 2010):
You don't really go into specifics, so I don't really know what is too rough for him. But if you're talking like you scratch his back with your nails or like push him onto the bed, I'd say tone it down a notch. Sex is like an experiment - you have to know how to give and take, what you like, what the other person likes, etc. Just talk to him and have him tell you what things he doesn't like.
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