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writes:Hi, am single , 36 yrs and have being very friendly with this guy of 30 for the last 1 1/2 yrs.we get along on well, like a house on fire and we have being physical also,,,But he says that am just a frd only, and want us to continue like that...I just cannot as i love this guy a lot and i just cant be frds with him any more...So, i decided not to be in touch with him as i cant handle the pain of being just a frd...we have stopped our relationship 3 this year, but he comes back again for advice , companionship etc...but says am just a frd...Do you think he'll change his mind ? He's looking for a partner but says he wants me as his frd all the time.... Reply to this Question
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reader, lukabazzoo  +, writes (26 July 2007):
 Hi,The only advice I would give is , try to move on and look for someone else. I know its hard,You have known him a long time and if he just sees you as a friend he always will.Give yourself space to find other interests to keep your mind off pining away and thinking about what a relationship would be like. Do not lose touch altogether as good friendships are hard to find. Once a friendship crosses the line to sex/love, it is hard to get it back.Hope this helps, Good luck
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