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writes:my boyfriend and i have been seeing each other for a year now.im in love with this guy no matter what happens however lately, we have been having arguments. usually its always my fault really, i bring up something to get him arguing with me. this is because i did something which i thought would not matter to him. in the beginning of our relationship before, we even knew this was going to last i went wit a friend to drink up, i ended up lying on the wit one of the guys there . nothing happended but my boyfriend thiks otherwise. i have tried several times to convince him nothing happened somehow i feel he still hasnt.the reason why i start arguing wit him is because i still think he might be going around with other girls and maybe he still has feelings for his ex- girlfriend. he also tries to convince me that im the only one in his life, but one time i belive him the next i am too scared to belive because i dont want to get hurt again. this is so confusing, im just so lost please, i need your advice on this one.
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reader, april0276  +, writes (2 October 2008):
I have been in your situation. It's hard when trust is an issue. That's why one of the reasons I never go out without my boyfriend to a club. Don't put yourself in those situations. Maybe you just need to sit down with him and talk to him about your insecurities. If he's told you that you are the only one and hasn't given you any other signs to think that there is something going on then trust him.
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