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writes:[Mod note: please follow up by adding the link to your previous question] Ok, guys almost a year ago I posted a question about this guy that I met and he was straight. Well, its been about 7 months since ive talked to him and I recently contacted him, I asked him how things were going..he said great! So ask we got deeper into conversation he started asking me how my love life was going and all the bullshit...well I told him I was talking to a guy and he said that he had been dating a guy for a few months and he also said that it was gettin serious...Now, keep in mind I had already told him how I felt about him. and he said he wasnt ready for a relationship and I can understand that but, he was also claiming he was straight (this was well over a year ago.) So here we are present day..hes dating a guy obviouly gay NOW. Im pretty sure he isnt attracted to me or else he would have already made his move...but many of my friends say that he is in love with me and is afraid to let me know...I highly doubt this but, a man can dream.(For better understanding read the previous post.) Reply to this Question
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (16 April 2010):
 http://www.dearcupid.org/question/we-used-to-talk-every-day-and-now.html
Was this the previous question to which you were referring?
Okay, I have to say that based on the information you have provided that this guy does not sound as though he is into you. If he were interested, I think by now he would have let you know. Especially as he is dating someone else, I would just let him slide on out of your life.
Get to know people a little better before falling in love the next time, okay? Your heart is going to be broken enough in life, you shouldn't start off with a disadvantage of handing it over to some dude who may or may not be gay in the first place! Just play it a little cool and adopt a 'wait and see' attitude.
Good luck!
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