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writes: My problem is that me and my ex boyfriend have been pretty much on and off for the past year or more, we dated for about 9 months and we'd always be good on and off. I am very sure that he still loves me but the last fight we had was quite stupid! and we broke up its been about 2 weeks and i miss him so so much. He says that he is still in love with me but he cant be with me. That doesnt quite make sense to me as if he really really loved me, wouldnt he be with me? he doesnt want to work things out and im beginning to think there is another reason behind this!. I have been depressed as ive NEVER been for the past 2 weeks and i believe we can work out again. I know what our faults were and i know that we can fix things. But he wont. What do i do to get him back? i miss him so so much. Do you think if i gave him time that he will come back to me? or is this not worth staying for?
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 November 2006): Hi guys, since that was my question THANKS for your answers it really helped but the thing is, i dont think there is hope because it really seems lyk he is moving on... he is really determined even if he says he still loves me, we recently didnt talk for about a week.. and now were talking as friends,im not quite sure wat i want from him as i dont think i can go thru this pain ever again.. but then again i miss him so much i cant eat or sleep its rather odd! please help! what should i do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 November 2006): He's not psychic and enither are you; you're having problems because neither of you have any idea what the other one is thinking or doing. So invite him round as a mate, get into a conversation, then casually but gently ask him why he lvoes you but he doesn't think he can be with you. There may even be something you can do to get around that problem. Make sure it doesn't seem like you've just invited him round to ask him that though, or he'll get quite upset!
Make sure he knows that you still would like a relationship with him and tell him you think you need to open up to each other a bit more for things to work out. If he doesn't know how you feel about his behaviour at the moment then there isn't much that he will do to change!
There's still hope, you just need to get talking, then at least if you don't manage to get back into your relationship then your mind can be at ease because you'll know why x
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