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reader, Moon_princess  +, writes (21 August 2010):
Moon_princess is verified as being by the original poster of the question Tnx so much that cleard a lot.but there is a thing that i broke up with him cause i thot i loved him but actly not so i broke up. But he realy truly lovd me thats why he was saying he doesnt love me any more cause he thot im a cheat but he mises me
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reader, metchemimi20  +, writes (20 August 2010):
 He actually may love you. But their is probably pride problems involved with him. Im 15 and take the whole LOVE issue to high-careful extents. Better yet, I don't get acquainted with it bcause I am afraid of all the trust, emotional and other things that come with it. He may really want you around, but he wants to stay on the CAREFUL side and not bring LOVE to it. So he says he doesnt. (:
My opinion.
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (20 August 2010):
 If he says he doesn't love you anymore, take that as his real feelings. It sounds as though he's being honest, and you are wishing very very hard for the opposite to be true. Wishing doesn't make things real. Sorry, life can be awful that way. Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 August 2010): Nope. You can still miss someone without loving them. You can get so use to being around someone you can't just suddenly live your life again straight after and it's all fine. He probably just misses your company.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 August 2010): No, he misses you because he is used to you. He was used to seeing you often and that's why he misses you. This doesn't mean he still loves you, but it looks like you still love him.
NightFairy
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reader, Nisa4u  +, writes (20 August 2010):
Well ask him what he means by that?
Is he playing around with your feelings or just saying for
the sake of it because he broke up.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 August 2010): No, I don't think he still loves you if says that he doesn't. I think he might miss whatever you had to offer him before (sex, companionship, etc)
You can miss someone (like your friends or family) without being in love with them
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 August 2010): If some one says: "The apple isn't red, but it's ripe." Does that mean the apple is red?
NO.
First of all, he misses your companionship. That doesn't mean he loves you.
Second, you are nothing more than a kid just now growing her patch between her legs. Just like your Ex Boyfriend. You two know nothing about love.
All you kids know is sex and lust. You use those two things to convince yourselves you're in love.
Grow up and move on.
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reader, Cerberus_Raphael  +, writes (20 August 2010):
 He can still miss you without feeling any love. Love is a powerful emotion and what he's feeling right now is probably closer to just a strong friendship kind of bond. This post is nowhere near clear enough for me to give you a definite answer though.
I hope that helps.
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reader, zebralove  +, writes (20 August 2010):
 No he just doesnt want to lose control of you
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