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He says he doesn't love me but he's sending all these signals ...

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Question - (13 July 2012) 2 Answers - (Newest, 14 July 2012)
A female United Kingdom age 26-29, *rystalMaze writes:

Does anyone believe in soul mates?

This one guy I've been trying to get over for ever, but we just keep getting "thrown" back at each other. We're so similar in everything we do, everything we believe in and stand for. We're good at the same things, have the same interests. I've been in love with him for ages, and he knows. He says he doesn't feel the same way but he's sending me all these signs, like I catch him looking at me, he does it to other girls but unlike them, he doesn't look away with me. Everyone tells me how highly he speaks about me, and how much he defends me. He makes excuses to be with me. Am I supposed to think this is nothing?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (14 July 2012):

Sometimes too much similarity can cause a relationship to crumble. Like as an EXAMPLE, if 2 people get stressed out really easily, things probably won't work out.

There could be 2 possibilities:

1.) He just wants to get a rise out of you and be a total jerk.

2.) He may be trying to see how you react because he might want you back.

I would just ignore him. If he really wants to be with you, let HIM make the effort. Don't get hurt over this guy. If he doesn't make the move, his loss. That's what happened to me. Eventually I gave up on his weird signals and found a man who truly loves me.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (14 July 2012):

Soul mates at your age? No not at all and I doubt it's real love anyway,just a crush and a guy at that age isn't going to just want one girl.

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