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female
age
30-35,
*hegirldrummer
writes:I have never been on a date before, and I have never had a real boyfriend before. The last one I did have only lasted 2 weeks, and he said that I was rich and was using me for that money and not my looks and my personality, and that really bugged me. I'm going into new school, and a new city, should I be myself, or should I be a rock girl, I loves playing the drums, and every guy I meet is either too old, or he is taken. But, what should I do, I really like this guy, but he has a girlfriend, and he is my best friend forever, and forever part is kinda going away! HELP!! please!!!
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reader, flower girl  +, writes (14 August 2007):
 Be who you want to be and do what you want and to hell with the rest of them, live for you.
Take care.xx.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 August 2007): If this jerk is your "best friend forever", I sure wouldn't want to know who your worst enemy is!
Are you talking about the boy you went out with for two weeks and who was so nasty, or is this "best friend" someone else?
If its the same one, then DUMP him! Make the most of your new school experience, and if you love to play drums, then for goodness' sake, PLAY them! Nor should you be concerned about meeting a boyfriend who plays in a rock group - if that is what you are hoping for. Play the drums because you enjoy it, no other motive.
In time, if you behave in a way that you enjoy; act responsibly in regard to boys, and get on with your studies and other activities, you'll grow into a well-rounded young woman who boys will like and appreciate for the person you are.
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reader, mum2be +, writes (14 August 2007):
dump him love, anyone who could say anything like this is not worth the effort....
dont worry about him.
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reader, Jovial  +, writes (14 August 2007):
 Hello girl
I dont think you should worry about that idiot. the guy who loves you will not care about how much money you have but how much joy you had brought into his life. you just met the wrong one but that shouldnt bother you because you are still very young to let a jerk destroy your confidence. dont even think about changing your personality to suit someone's selfish needs, be yourself and that way you will not have any regrets. Good luck in your new school and city take it one day at a time and all will be well.
And the guy with a girlfriend? that is a no go area especially if he feels nothing for you. you might just embarass yourself and end-up loosing the friendship you have with him. keep on being his friend if you guys are meant to be your hearts will do that for you.
Good luck
Jovial
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 August 2007): I really don't understand the question. You go from saying a guy only liked you for your money and then talking about a new school. From what I get of the question your asking who you should try to be at your school. How about you be yourself. Whatever it is you want to do just do it. You like the drums, then play them. There are people who will except you for everything weird that you do.
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