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writes:hello, im a 16 year old girl needing help. i had sex with a friend of the family and after having sex he said oops. could that mean anything bad? because im scared that he might have gotten me pregnant but its to early to tell. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 July 2009): hiya u r probz pregnant... soz bbe. contact ur doctor 4 more info but do NOT have a termination cuz it will b the worst mistake of ur life. i promise. gd luck x
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 July 2009): Were you using a condom, and if so did it split? X
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 July 2009): I'm afraid that might mean he ejaculated (came) inside you - when a man reaches orgasm a substance called semen comes out of his penis, which is filled with sperm, sperm are what get you pregnant. (Sorry if you already knew that)
It would be a good idea to go to your doctor - s/he can administer the 'morning-after pill' which helps protect against pregnancy after unprotected sex. You can take the pill up to 72 hours after unprotected sex, however it's most effective if you take it as soon as possible so be aware of that.
Is the guy older than you? He doesn't sound very responsible.
Next time you have sex, make sure you wear a condom.
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (9 July 2009):
 Well, were you relying on him pulling out? Was he using a condom? Are you on birth control? I'm assuming if you're scared that you're pregnant, you weren't using any sort of reliable birth control method, and an "oops" very well might mean that he had a slip up and you may be pregnant. He might have said "oops" because he realized that he just has sex with a friend of the family. Maybe he said "oops" because he remembered he left the oven on.
But if you used no birth control, you absolutely could be at risk for pregnancy. Not to mention, STI's!! If you're going to be sexually active, you need to keep a trusty condom in your wallet to avoid doing dangerous things like unprotected sex. Make a doctor's appointment perhaps to check up, get a pregnancy test and to talk about birth control options. Keep yourself safe, sister!!
Good luck.
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