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writes: Is my fiance cheating on me? He is in Florida for two months just for fun (can take his work with him). Last night he turned his phone off because he said I was annoying him and he wanted to sleep. We talked things over and things were fine. Then, tonight (about 7 hours ago) he called and told me around 7pm his time that he was going to Hooters and then out but wouldn't have his phone with him because it needed charging, so told me not to get mad if he didn't answer and that he would call when he got back, though it might be late. Well, I am sitting here (1am my time and 3 am his time) waiting for him to call. (I've called him a lot in the past 4 hours and he's not answering). I'm sorry, but I don't know of any club staying open that late. I have this gut feeling that he is cheating on me, because he never goes anywhere without his phone because a lot of his business deals with his phone. He said he needed to charge it because last night he couldn't because it was off. I am so confused and driving myself completely insane! It hurts that he is gone for 2 months, and now I have to deal with this on top of it! Is he cheating on me?
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 March 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwell, his excuse was he went to hooters and had two beers but they were really big, so then he went to his rental car (which was going to be a surprise when i went down there this weekend) and fell asleep.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 March 2007): I am not an expert but if it looks like a duck , quacks like a duck, then more then likely it is a Duck. To be quite honest with you I also have experienced the same senario and wow the reasons that you were told are the very same reasons I was given.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 March 2007): If that was me i would of wanted to go with him. Why didn't you? if he can work from anywhere then why didn't he stay with you and do work, then have a holiday together, i'm not sure about this arrangement. Sorry , but this wouldn't do for me. You are bound to worry. It will end up costing you loads on phone calls. Try not to think the worst while he is out, but i know you are bound to feel this way. Just be yourself and get out with your friends. Don't mope around. When he comes back have a good chat with him and explain you don't like sitting around waiting for the phone to ring and next time you are going with him!!!
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reader, Flowers  +, writes (1 March 2007):
 Perhaps he is busy at the moment and would love to talk to u but work on that side is keeping him busy. ill say go on do ure thing and who knows out off the Blue he will phone and say hi :) Coz as much as u miss him he misses u.Darling wait a bit give him some time.Dont worry b4 u notice he will be back with u in no time :)
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reader, AskEve  +, writes (1 March 2007):
 Didn't he ask you if you'd like to go with him? Seems strange to me that he'd want to go away for 2 months without you. It sounds to me as if he's sowing his wild oats if I'm being honest. If he ALWAYS takes him phone with him then last night would have been no exception, it only takes 15-20 minutes to charge up your phone after all.
Maybe he just got really drunk and went straight to bed? If that's the case you obviously aren't first in his thoughts. Maybe he was hoping to "pull" and was giving himself leeway just in case by saying his phone was charging. You know him better than I do and I'm sure you'll get some kind of excuse from him today.
Don't go in all guns blazing, play it cool, listen to his excuse, let him know you're going out with YOUR friends at the weekend (even if you're not) and see how he responds. DON'T be so keen to call him all the time, he'll just think you're checking up on him. Let HIM chase you!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 March 2007): Maybe he is or isn't cheating, but it doesn't sound like you're all that happy with him as it is. I know his cheating would be such a perfect excuse to dump his ass, but come on, you don't know of any clubs open past 3am? You're fishing for an excuse to toss him, when you already have the perfect excuse - you're dating some guy who jets for 2 months at a time and doesn't call when he says he will. Why are you waiting around for him?
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