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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes: i told my boyfriend of 2 years that im in love with him and he said he was too then yesterday he said hes not in love with with me he lied.is he mucking me around and does he mean it.his mum said she thinks hes lying because their close.what do i do?should i stop ringing him.he really hurt my feelings because i am in love with him,pease help.thanks everyone. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 July 2008): Maybe he's confused about his feelings, maybe even a bit scared, especally if it's new to him, maybe even not new to him, may not make a lot of sense here, sorry. Basically, maybe he's afraid he will get hurt, but doesn't excuse him from hurting you, now, maybe you should go to his house, meet up with him somewhere, and just talk about the situation. Tell him how you felt when he said that, but don't argue, then ask him why he did what he did, and just communicate with each other.
Good Luck, hope everything turns out OK.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 July 2008): He might be mucked around. But at the same time he might be confused and keeping his true feelings secret...Talk to him, not his mother, and don't assume. Don't tell him what you think because he'll just agree to make it easier. Say how much its hurt you and you want the truth.Then you can make your mind up about what to do...besides its been 2 years, its not like he doesn't like you. He just might not be at the next level tis all.
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