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writes: My male friend who I have known for around 3 years has just told me he is apparently in 'love' with me. We are very close, and hug all the time. I went out with his best friend just a few weeks ago, and this is when he confessed his love for me. He said "Since you've been going out with ----, Its made me realise I love you".I thinkI feel the same way, but since I've been showing him more affection (more intimate hugs etc) he has not been as affectionate to me - not replying to texts, not answering his phone etc. One of my female friends thinks its because he liked the idea who couldn't have me, and now he can it's not interesting enough for him. I've asked him at school and he said he still likes me, but for some reason I don't believe him. - I have severe paranoia! I just wondered if anyone knew maybe why he is acting so different and if they agree with my friend? Any help would be greatly appreciated!
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reader, pinkpeach_247  +, writes (24 April 2007):
I agree with your friend because maybe at the point when he was like madly in "love" with you and couldn't have you he wanted you more then anything, and now that he knows you feel the same way towards him he maybe isn't ready for a relationship. He most likely does still like you but is refraining from showing it. Maybe you should talk to him about it and tell him how you've been feeling lately.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 April 2007): You might not want to start acting like a married couple as soon as he drops the L bomb.
You probably just weirded him out with all the hugs and whatnot, theres no reason him saying one particular word should change the way you act around him.
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