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reader, JessAgonyAunt  +, writes (14 July 2007):
 well it means wat they said,they dont fancie you they only like you as a friend, just be happy as friends, it's better being friends than no relationship at allgood luckjess xxxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 July 2007): He means: "I don't really want to commit anything whatsoever and I wouldn't like my buddies to even think we are together. However we can have sex. And this thing I am telling you will only make you want me more".
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reader, bemused  +, writes (14 July 2007):
 Hi Hun
I would move on if I were you. You are not required to be his friend either. You are not a consolation prize...you are a leading lady...just not with this guy. It has always been my experience that if you have shared something with someone and really like them and they play the frienship card that it is good to be the independent gal you are and walk away...to something better. Good luck hun.
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reader, penta  +, writes (13 July 2007):
 How would you feel if a male friend of yours, whom you had no interest in -- not in that way -- started chasing you? Wouldn't it make you really uncomfortable? Wouldn't you start avoiding this person?
If your friend doesn't like you the same way you like him, your best bet is to wait him out. Maybe someday in the long-distant future he could change his mind. It's not likely, but it could happen.
But don't "chase" him. Just be his friend. And in the meantime, work on finding a new crush.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 July 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthe only thing is i really like him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 July 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthankz to the people that have helped
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reader, penta +, writes (13 July 2007):
It means they're not looking for anything romantic from you. You need to respect that and not go chasing. If you can enjoy the friendship without looking for anything more, all is good. Otherwise I recommend breaking contact.
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