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anonymous
writes:i need ur help guys, Im sort of seeing this guy, and we do get on really well but the problam is he says hes seeing other girls aswell as me but i dont really belive him, well untill now I picked him up from the pub the other nite and as i went out saturday nite, he said to me so you didnt take anyone home with u th other nite and i said no i didnt he then went on to say i dont mind if u do you no It was then i was getting confused, He also started playing with my hair, grabbing my boobs, and then saying to me if u dont kiss me proberbly then im not going, So it then ended up 2 full on snogging,I dont mind doing this as like i said kinda seeing each other, But i just cant understand why he would say this to me( I DONT MIND IF U DID SLEEP WITH ANYONE ELSE)One friend of mine said he only said this so it looks like he didnt care, and just trying to find info out And she also said it could be the fact that hes beging 2 like me more, with him playing with my hairWhat do u guys think??Cheers tara
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 May 2010): If he says he's seeing other girls and you don't believe him, you should..because otherwise he wouldn't insist it's okay for you to see other guys. He must be saying it to justify in his own mind, his seeing other girls at the same time. To be honest, you should tell him to go and enjoy being a player, and leave him, because he doesn't seem to care much at all about you, and players usually don't stop until they're done with the game when they reach their mid thirties and begin to run out of interest in being that way. Go out and find someone who cares ALOT about you, not just a little, and don't give people like this guy the attention he craves.
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reader, raiders  +, writes (5 May 2010):
 No if he cared for you he would not tell you to sleep with other man and I too agree with CaringGuy I feel your friend is sooooooo wrong. If this guy cared for you believe me you would know you would feel a vibe you would feel connection. Most importantly he would not ask you to have sex with other men.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (5 May 2010):
1 - He's either not that interested in you for anything other than sex.
2 - He's seeing quite a few women and is using them all.
A guy like this can only lead to trouble. He could be overly insecure and is testing you, which is unfair. Or he's trying to build up some hareem of women that he can use at his pleasure. No offence to your friend, but she hasn't understood this at all. Take it from a male that when man is really interested in you as a person and not just a sex object, he will make a lot of effort to get to know you, and won't sit there wanting you to sleep with other men. To me, it seems like this guy is just trying to have his way without the commitment.
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