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writes:Hiya,I don't know what to do or what to think now, because of this one guy. We met about a month ago, on a residential school trip. We hung around together, a lot. People even noticed that we were getting 'cosy'. He treated me very well there, and was a complete sweetheart. He responded like he liked me, and we flirted loads. So back home and I told him I had a very very tiny crush on him. He said he sees me as a great friend but doesnt want to look that far because hes going off to Uni (hes a year older than me). So I left it for a few days, but I kept on thinking: does he like me back? So 2 days ago, I texted him asking: do you like me back? He still hasnt replied.Also, in college, he seems to be blanking me. And suddenly logging off MSN when he sees me online (thats just a hunch).Can you give any explanation to his behavior?
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 May 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThankies for all your advice.
I found he hadnt got my text, so I asked him straight out. And yes, he does like me back! =D
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 April 2009): I agree with the guy who wrote before me . If I broke up with my gf ( god forbid we do ) but still liked her and I saw her flirting with another guy I would get sooooo jealous and beg for her back.
Hope I was some help! =) 3
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 April 2009): If you want him to run back to you just flirt with another guy in front of him....Trust me, I know what I am saying.
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reader, puzzledpixie +, writes (25 April 2009):
If hes a good guy like you describe he probably doesnt want to hurt you or lead you on. He doesnt want to start anything or get into anything knowing it wont be a long relationship. He probably flirts in good faith as he finds you attractive and nice to be with Just have fun with him as going off to uni its the wise choice- long distant relationships never seem to work; too complicated!
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reader, Charlotte94 +, writes (25 April 2009):
Maybe he just needs time to accept that you like him or can't believe that you do like him becausehe might of liked you to
i'm sure he will b talking again to you soon
he might also need time to think about his feelings, aswell as yours
if you still feel that he is blanking you out after a couple of weeks you could talk to him when you're both alone an tell him how you feel and you're sorry if he doesn't like it but you cant control how you feel.
If you find it hard to talk to him in person maybe a letter or a note to say how you truely feel and that you are upset that he is ignoring you could be better and help you.
But remember boys are shy about they're feelings aswell as girls so he might really like you too but he just dosen't know how to say it
good luck
charlotte xx
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