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female
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41-50,
*mibeingstupid
writes:i have been with a guy for over 5 years, and i think that i know him, But the other night he went out with his friend and boss from work. I was told that it was his boss's birthday and they were going out for his birthday with blokes from work and would i be the taxi,which i did, we went and collected his friend from his house and when we were leaving, his girlfriend said enjoy yourself out with the fat girls from work. which i didnt think anything off.Its just that when i collected the 3 of them they were drunk, his friend said that i have competition from a girl at slimming world, and that i should go down to his work and sort her out. his boss said that she didnt used to talk to him, and he only got invited out tonight cos she talkes to my boyfriend.(it turned out that it was her birthday also and there were lots of people out.) i understand that he has to talk to women at work, he has a job to do. i spoke to my boyfriend the next day, and he said that he didnt know that there was a 'dual birthday' that night. he explained every pub that he had been into and explained that he was out with colleagues from work and wanted to get to know, everyone he worked with as he hadnt been with the company very long. Should i worry or not ? ?
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 August 2007): Yes I would be worried in the sense that you do have competition. Obviously if your bf was having an affair he would not have asked you to drive them and certainly his friends would not have mentioned the other girl. (But never be to sure of yourself or others for that matter).
Obviously someone at work has a crush on your man and that is always a potential threat (no matter how "good" your guy is). Don't go psycho either cause then you'll just drive him away. But do keep an eye on this situation and let your boyfriend know what his coworker and boss told you and ask him whats up with that. Just tell him you are concerned. If he loves you, he will be extra careful to avoid this woman and not upset you anymore than you already feel.
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reader, Krazyashz +, writes (20 August 2007):
I don't think you should worry about it. My boyfriend works with alot of women at work too and I know they go out for company birthdays at bars. He seems honest so I would just leave it alone. HOWEVER if he starts going to the bars all the time because "EVERYONE has a birthday, including the bartender lol", thats when you should start to question it. I hope this helped,Krazy
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