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He promised not disappear, but he has!

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Question - (5 July 2010) 7 Answers - (Newest, 19 July 2010)
A female United States age 41-50, *eniferr writes:

Hi, i am dating this guy for over 4 months, he called me in my birthday, and he told me what i was doing, i told him 2 weeks ago that i will like to share with him and my best friends, and hes says it was ok, when the day arrived he called me and he wish me a happy birthday, i told him i was going to the movies with my dad, and when i got out i will call him, to meet up and share, he says it was ok, he told me to call him after i get out. After i get out of the movies, i called him since 6 pm, and text him, and he never responded to me, i shared with my friends, afeter sharing with my friends i called him again, but no answer, and text him i hope nothing bad had happened , i trust on you, because he made me a promise one month ago, that he will never dissappear without telling me since he did that in the past.. i dont know what to think

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A female reader, Wise Woman of the Forest United Kingdom +, writes (19 July 2010):

Wise Woman of the Forest agony auntIs there a possibility that his phone has broken, the battery is dead and he can't find the charger?

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A female reader, janniepeg Canada +, writes (6 July 2010):

janniepeg agony auntIt's the unreliable guys who always have to make promises in order to break them. You never hear the word "promise" from a decent guy. He says something, he does something. There is no need to emphasize he will indeed do it.

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A female reader, jeniferr United States +, writes (6 July 2010):

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hi,wise woman of the forest, i called and text him, yesterday, he doesnt have a phone, just a mobile, today i text him again, that i was worry because he always texy me or call me, since he made his promise he will not dissapear again,but haven call me or text me yet, and yesterday if he saw his phone he will see my missed call and text, i just dont know why he caleld to congrats me and say to call him, i did it several times, and no answer it have been like 30 hours..

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A female reader, jeniferr United States +, writes (6 July 2010):

jeniferr is verified as being by the original poster of the question

thanks for your opinions...casey,i wish i could call him, i just try to trust on his promise, maybe he many things in his mind, and he doesnt want to tell me, he doesnt answer his mobile or return my text, he is acting like the first time, i thought of an email, but he doesnt also appear online in my msn, and anonymoues yes almost all men are coward, i just care about him and trust his promise, but you are right in saying dignity is important, the probabily of someyhing bad happened is so low, because 4 hours before he dinnt answer me anymore he was ok, tired, but ok, but in 4 hours can happen something....

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A female reader, Wise Woman of the Forest United Kingdom +, writes (6 July 2010):

Wise Woman of the Forest agony auntI would say to ring his home. I don't see why he would want to upset you on your birthday. He called you to ask when to meet you and clearly was expecting a call. Perhaps he had left his phone behind. How long has it been since you text him?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (5 July 2010):

All I can think is that he felt it got too serious all of a sudden or something?! If I were you I'd try ring him again aswell just to check he is okay too just as he might have gotten Ill or something?! If he doesn't reply on his mobile email him just saying "hope your okay because I can't reach you on your mobile"

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (5 July 2010):

Men are cowards. Dont text him anymore, if he likes you he will contact you, dont chase him. If he doesnt contact you then there's your answer. You're better off without him. Dignity always, stop the contact.

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