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writes:Two years ago my boyfriend and I had split. Even though we were apart for some time, I always felt somehow we would get back together. I stayed at home hoping that he would call, as I didn't want to meet anyone else, plus i don't want him to start accusing me. Yes I know we had broken up, it's not like i was doing anything wrong. I didn't hear from him in months, and he never had a cell phone. early 2009, I got a text. anonymous person. The text (why cant we be cool and we could have this kiss forever) I had a feeling that was him from "could we have this kiss forever." I responded and said, is this you "M"...then next day I got a text saying (sorry my brother and his friends were playing around with my phone.)so I left it alone..1 week later i got a text from the same number calling me a (home wrecker,find your own man bitch...I have pictures of you and I will send it to ....)the name of my steet was mentioned. I was puzzled...so I texted back and said "who is this? I think you got the wrong person."..I kept on getting more text calling me a home wrecker. All I did was ignore the texts. Finally it stopped...Months later I heard from him and we decided to get back. We starting talking and he then said " i have a confession." his confession was that he had a cell phone and he was the one texting to see if I was cheating. I couldn't say anything except I was speechless. To this day we are still on and off...He said that he loves me but I think it's a obsession now. He sticks to me like glue.Is he obsessed with me?
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reader, ThatsMyKoolAidBitch  +, writes (9 November 2012):
.......Annnd......You believed him????????????
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reader, nazeena +, writes (27 March 2011):
nazeena is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you all for your input. I have told him that he should get help, and that I was willing to go with him. He tells me he is fine and he needs no help as he thinks I am the one that needs it. Our relationship is getting worser and worser every moment, but yet we say we love each other. The biggest problem with him is that he doesn't listen to anyone. He has the first and last saying in everything.As to one of the question if he has ever cheated..sometimes I truly believe he did. As he has the number for his ex girlfriend which he has send to me, to spite me and hurt me...then next moment he tells me he doesn't want to love me. He say's "I feel that you are cheating on me so I send you the number."..next he send me an email just last week telling me he has a number from another girl, and that I have seen her, and even met her. From all your advise..I think the best thing to do is move on. It feels like a love and hate relationship. Or maybe he wants me to be the perfect stay at home girlfriend/wife, while he has his fun.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 March 2011): I actually think it's on and off so he can be with other girls, probably who was texting you...some girl who he was with checking his phone. I think he is obsessed with anyone he is with for a short while and then finds a new obsession so he flits about from girl to girl. He doesn't sound like a one woman kinda guy and like he gets bored easily. did he cheat in the past?
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reader, Abella +, writes (27 March 2011):
 he is obsessed with irrational jealousy, which is not healthy for him, nor for you.
His silly texts were infantile. And yes suggesting he could not let you go, even though you had broken up. Those texts were disrespectful to you.
I would suggest you ask him to get some counselling for his jealousy obsession
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