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*hbabycakesxx
writes:So today, I had a date...or hang out day...with a guy I like. He knows I like him and he's told me he likes me too. But I had asked him if it was a date, he said he wasn't sure. And when I brought up what we were, he said "I'm not sure." Throughout the day, we held held and acted like we were together. He also asked me if we were "friends with benefits." I told him if that was it, I'd have to just back off because I don't want that. He later told me to try being together...and when he held my hand he said it didn't feel right. Should I just move on?
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reader, Capri2  +, writes (27 March 2011):
He wants FWB and backed off his word because he realized you don't want that. Right now he's figuring out how to get what he wants (fwb) without calling it friends with benefits.I guess you want a serious relationship so you should move on.
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reader, soon567 +, writes (27 March 2011):
I disagree with this...let the relationship blossoms if it can, but with hold sex because it just confuses things.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (27 March 2011):
 I think you should let him go. The poor fella has no idea what he REALLY wants. He "thinks" he wants a FWB, most likely because he assumes it wouldn't involve any changes in his life.
If you do sleep with hi, I'm pretty sure he will back peddle and decide it didn't "feel" right. He likes you, but he doesn't like you, like you.
You want a BF, someone to be there for, and who is there for you. Not just to sleep with or hump when nothing better is going on. So drop this one and find yourself a guy who can reciprocate.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 March 2011): well if he asked to be friends wit benifits and yu said no then he said he wanted a relationship i believe its a lie he only decided to tell you he wanted a relationship to get wat he wants and if yu agree to a relationship wit him take it super slow if he sticks around he really wants one if not he was using you good luck.
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