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writes: I have been dating this guy for about three months. Hes wonderful and I really love him.The problem am having is he almost never wants to meet me during the day time. We only meet in the evening, mostly in private places or chat in the car. I have suggested we go to some places such as shopping malls during the day, and the answers he gives are like "i dont want to meet people that know me". This gives me an indication he does not want to be seen with me by his friends. I have only met one of his friends and one brother. I go to his place, and he is not married.It makes me feel bad. I dont want to come out needy and putting him under pressure by asking him, how else should i handle it? could it be he is not yet dicided? Should i just take things slow and ignore? Should i be open to dating other guys till he shows real commitment? Reply to this Question
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reader, Honeygirl  +, writes (15 September 2009):
 Yes, that is the way to do it - arrange a dinner somewhere public and when he refuses to go ask him straight out what is going on - dont beat around the bush - get answers out of him!!
Let us know what happens!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 September 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionOkay, so what i get is that there is something wrong, probably that he is in another relationship. So what do you suggest I go about it? I just walk out or confront him and see how it goes?
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 September 2009): There are usually 3 main reasons for not wanting to meet in the day:1. He is already in a relationship with somebody other than you2. He has just came out of a relationship and the girl is acting like a crazy mo fo and would flip if she seen you two togetheror...3. He is a vampire and cannot possibly meet you during the day.(Lol i joke)Personally if I was in that situation I would just lay down the law and say, the point of dating is to actually go on dates not sit in the car blah blah blah!! Get my drift?
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 September 2009): There are a lot of red flags here..... to me it sounds like he is in a relationship already and doesnt want to be found out....
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