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writes: Hello. I am a bit confused. was seeing quite a bit of a guy for couple of months, recently we haven't seen each other for few weeks, as we have both been busy. I spoke to him and told him I was going to go into hospital - he offered to come and see me which I thought was nice, so do you think he is still interested in me or is he saying this out of sympathy? I told him thanks but I didn't want him to, as I am going to be feeling awful and don't like people seeing me like that, especially someone I don't know very well and it is only for one night. I am starting to wonder if he actually still likes me as we were dating at least a couple of times a week - he told me he hadn't met anyone like me in ages and he introduced me to friends and talked about introducing me to family too. He now seems to have backed off and had little contact with me the last few weeks and I have been upset about this as I don't know why. Sex was great and I waited a month b4 we did sleep together. We are in late 20's and fairly mature, although he hasn't been in a serious relationship for a long time and my last one was 3 1/2 years earlier this year! What do you think he is up to?? Thank you. x Reply to this Question
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reader, Frank B Kermit  +, writes (22 November 2006):
 Hi there,
My suggestion is to focus on what is most important here: your health.
Unless he makes it CLEAR and DIRECT, you should just assume that he is there to see you as a friend.
Once you get your health situation then you can ask him out if you are interested in him.
I once visted an ex of mine who was recovering from cancer. I had no interest in dating her again, but since I was her last boyfriend, I wanted her to know that I would be there to support her...as a friend.
-Frank B Kermit
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 November 2006): I think he is playing it safe. It sounds to me that he does like you but perhaps isn't quite ready for a relationship. He did offer to come and visit you in hospital, but my ex did that (he's odd and does like hospitals!!). I would take this quite cooly. Wait for him to make anymore moves. If he doesn't then don't worry, sit back. some people are very strange to work out. some are very straight forward. I'm not sure about this one, just be careful
Take care
xx
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