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writes: I recently met this AMAZING girl. She is 20, i am 20 in 2 months. We have been going out for just under 3 months now.I think she is amazing, i have fallen for her and she has fallen for me.Shes quite dependant on people though and needs someone there for her all the time. This is a problem when shes at Uni 160 miles away from me. I try and see her as much as possible, i see her AT LEAST every 2 weeks, which is a lot i think compared to other people who go without seeing their other halves for weeks/months.Despite seeing her regulary, she keeps saying she cannot cope with not seeing me. Shes regulary on the phone to me in tears. Although im not finding it as hard as she is, I dont want to loose her, i love her too much. Though i dont want to be the one causing her this pain. Its not just me, its her work pileing up too, though this could be a side affect of the state shes in.I dont know what to do. I want whats best for her, but im worried that means leaving her :( Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 November 2006): i'm sorry to hear about your situation it must be very difficult for you - but dont start to blame yourself. I think if you continue to do as you are doing, see your girlfriend regularly and support her through regular phone conversations she'll start to feel better.
Has she recently moved away? Change can be hard to deal with for some people - esp to a new place miles away from the people you love and people cope in different ways.
I think eventually when your girl has settled in and gets used to the amount of time she is able to be with you things will start to settle down.
It seems as if you really care, leaving her may be the easy way out. I'm sure if you support her right now it will be worth it for both of you in the end.
god luck xx
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