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writes: I have been with my bf for over a year and we have been living together for a year. I gat really frustrated with him. He will go out with his friends for lunch, supper to the bars. But when I ask him to do something he will never make plans or he makes up an excuse... It has became a big issue for me, especialy since I am the one who stays at home and he is the one who works. And when he does go out with his friends he doesn't even call to tell me he won't be coming home. He doesn't have to answer to me, I know, but he should have respect towards me about it.I have tried to talk to him about it but we always end up arguing about it. What can I do??? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 November 2005): Either get used to it of stop spunging find a job and move out.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (13 November 2005):
Why waste anymore time on this guy? Since you aren't married all you have to do is find three things: a job, a place of your own, and a guy who likes to be around you. It's that simple and people do it everyday. Get out there and enjoy this great big world!
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reader, pops +, writes (13 November 2005):
Why aren't you going out with him and his friend? You sound more like a housekeeper, cook, and sex buddy than a girlfriend. Move out and start a new life with someone who will be proud to have you with him when he goes out.
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