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writes: I have been with my girlfriend for 6 months and love her so much. She says she loves me too. Everything was going OK until about 6 weeks ago. I hurt my knee playing football and since then I have been off work/unable to do a lot and things have changed. She seems distant and not her usual self. She says I do not make enough of an effort with her and things like that, which I don't think is true. If it is, are there any ways I can make it more apparent how much I think of her? Recently she has been having doubts about us and says she wants to "talk", yet every time we see each other she doesn't talk. She has a lot of uni work on at the moment and has asked for some space to do this which I am OK with giving, but I'm scared she is thinking of ending things. Not 3 weeks ago when I was in hospitalIi was "the one", now I'm lucky if iIget a kiss in a text message!! Any thoughts?
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 November 2005): i am feeling about the same as you October 29th 2005 i hit an embankment and flipped my car i fractured my back and have been off work ever since here recently my fiance has been saying that she isn't happy anymore and she thinks its time to end it she wants alot of space and time apart at first i tried not to give it until a friend said to me that i was making things worse and was possibly causing the end of us now i am giving her the space and time apart she needs i feel like things may get better but i feel like i have to do something more drastic maybe you will read this and think about doing this too im going to tell her that i want to take a break for a week or two and i know that this may cause the end of us but i just cant sit here and wait for our relationship to help after all time apart can be good and like the old saying "absence can make a heart fonder" just writing this to let you know that you arent the only one going through this type of pain and hardship hope everything works out for you and you two end up happy together the best of luck to you.
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (13 November 2005):
 Maybe it's your injury and maybe the relationship has just run its course. You talk to her instead of waiting for her to do it. Tell HER you need more space, get that knee healed up and find someone who make you happy.
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reader, pops +, writes (13 November 2005):
So what if she leaves you? You aren't going to die. She sounds like she just doesn't like the you that needs help, and can't be the fun guy you used to be. You two are in school, with lots of pressures, and stress that can affect how you think about a lot of things, including romance. I am sorry if this lady is having second thoughts about you. It happens to the best of us. Tell her good bye, and good luck. She isn't talking because she knows how hurt you will be when she tells you she wants to end the relationship. Let her off the hook. You may keep a friend, and maybe a girl who will have third thoughts about you some day.
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